Wednesday saw a HERON standing in the eco-pond!!!!
18 March 2026 16:21What I read
Finished Victoria's Secret - still slightly meh about it - could possibly have engaged a bit with a longer history of 'Monarch has favourite/s who are not Quite Our Sort', even if historically the gender issues in play here were different??? Also had a bit of feeling that QV was not entirely NOT treating John Brown in the light of A Very Large Faithful Dog devoted to her to which she was also devoted and which she insisted on imposing upon people who hated dogs.... Thought it was good on her awful childhood, though.
Clare Pollard, The Modern Fairies (2024) - telling stories about women telling stories, i.e. the precieuses at the time of Louis XIV, the stories they were telling and their stories and how those reflected one another.
Susan Ertz, Woman Alive (1935), my attention having been drawn towards it by a mention of its having been republished. I have a copy of the first edition, Ertz being one of the early C20th middlebrow women novelists in whom I have had an interest going back decades, but not sure whether I ever actually read this. It is sf Of The Period, in which someone is cast forward into The Future by sciento-psychic means, this is his account. And okay, is not (unlike a cluster from around the same time) about the dystopic crushing iron heel of fascistic misogyny, is about the dysoptic outcome of a war in which germ warfare has killed all the women. Except one who has survived courtesy of mad scientist neighbour's experimental process.
Points for her being a young women of education, character, and something of a backstory conveying a certain cynicism, but she still concedes to the agenda of marrying and going forth and having babbyz, though I think everyone is a bit optimistic that she will pop out multiple daughters and even so, we do not think this will Save Humanity. (Also, no-one seems to suggest she should have Plurality of Mates, surely that would be advisable?) But then it just stops with our narrator pinging back to his present day.
Most recent Literary Review
Muriel Spark, A Far Cry from Kensington (1988), which I really enjoyed and am now looking out for more of hers - think I have copies of some somewhere?
Robert Barnard, Death of a Literary Widow (1979)- everybody in it is a bit of a caricature, not just the American academic.
Emily Tesh, The Incandescent (2025), because I have been hearing well of it. Pretty good, but is it just having Read A Lot that made one character look like a honking parade of red flags?
On the go
I think I am actually giving up on I Am A Woman, I don't think Being A Sad Lesbian is enough to provide a rounded character? Maybe it gets better?
Nibbling at various things. Realise that it is 2 weeks to next Pilgrimage discussion and I do not want to read Honeycomb too far in advance.
Up next
No idea.
Another personal record
18 March 2026 08:02I'm hoping my legs recover by Friday and I can push for 10 miles, but we'll see. If not, gunning for Saturday.
Since this approach is working, I think I'm going to keep it up for as long as it keeps paying off, then I'll think about mixing it up with some gym cardio activity.
Oh, fitness/muscle/injury notes:
* Left hamstring continues to behave igneously. I think sleeping with the leg straight *helps*, but isn't a cure.
* Left knee (which has partially relapsed) was stiff in places, but mostly fine (it's usually later in the day that it acts up), same deal with the right knee (which is probably paying the price of being neglected in favor of the injured knee).
* Left glutes tight, probably from trying to keep the left knee and hamstring pointed strictly forward.
* Right quads tight, I'm pretty sure, but I have a good stretch for that that I just need to make myself do before my next run.
Left knee: I had stopped sleeping with it unbent, thinking it was healed and I could return to my normal lifestyle, but alas. I've been getting occasional spasms and occasional sliding and popping. I'm now back to a strict regimen, and hopefully it goes back to fully asymptomatic again. But at least it's letting me walk and run.
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18 March 2026 10:20I’m a 21-year-old college student living in a house with five other students. There are three women and three men. We’re having an issue keeping our kitchen clean, and I am the only one who consistently cleans. I keep the floors and counters clean, wash the piles of dishes in the sink, wash dish towels, etc. Anytime I’ve asked people to chip in, they never follow through. I’ve tried not doing the cleaning, but then the kitchen gets disgusting and I end up caving.
I’m not completely innocent when it comes to not always washing my dishes immediately and being messy, but I feel like I clean more often than anyone else. A general chore chart doesn’t work, and I am tired of feeling like my roommate’s mother. How can I get them to take some initiative and do more of the heavy lifting that always falls on me?
—Not a Mother to Five at 21
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What I saw on the web on 2026.3.17
18 March 2026 07:05- Why February?
by Tom Murphy
https://dothemath.ucsd.edu/2026/03/why-february/
a defence of February being a short month, in the context of recognition that "calendars are a form of insisting that our wild universe adheres to a rigid plan"
via rss - Dune: Part Three | Official Teaser Trailer
by Denis Villeneuve etc
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_9vCamtuPY
hmn. am i interested in this?
via youtube recommends - FIREFLY ANNOUNCEMENT PANEL
by Captain Tightpants et al
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ou27uZqQJaQ
providing a little more detail about what they're planning. and Nathan being Nathan, of course
via youtube recommends
The Proposal by Myung-Hoon Bae
18 March 2026 08:51
Nobody is sure who the enemy is, where they come from, or what their goals are. Still, they are the enemy and it’s up to the United Earth Surface and the Allied Orbital Forces Command to show the enemy what’s what.
The Proposal by Myung-Hoon Bae
Lights are back on in Cuba
18 March 2026 08:00cheerful news items
17 March 2026 23:26It looks like there won't be a border wall built through Big Bend National Park in Texas. It may be too early to hope, because DHS does what it wants without any legal backing, but it has at least been postponed, after 130 organizations, millions of Texans (and other folks), and apparently every business in the nearby area heavily lobbied Congress to stop it.
I am making progress on my taxes. I still have questions, but the online chat and phone help people have been intermittently actually helpful.
Weekly reading (etc.)
17 March 2026 22:09In a rare (and only very, very loosely book-adjacent) movie update, I saw The Bride! (2026, dir. Maggie Gyllenhaal) last weekend and it was SO much fun. It is not a particularly coherent movie— it does feel like a sort of Frankenstein's monster in itself, cobbled from about three different premises ("what if Bride of Frankenstein was Bonnie & Clyde?"; "Frankenstein 2: Mary's Revenge, A Feminist Retelling", etc.)— but as a fan of campy horror and classic Hollywood I felt incredibly catered to. I also watched National Theatre's Ncuti Gatwa-led The Importance of Being Earnest, which is in fact as absolutely delightful as it looks. (It's available on YouTube through tomorrow, the 18th, and streaming on National Theatre at Home after that.)
home again
17 March 2026 20:27Rysmiel gave me a back rub last night that did significant good for the tension in my neck and right shoulder. I currently have an unrelated shoulder pain, from spending too much time poking at my phone while spending several hours at the airport, but if I'm somewhat cautious now that I'm home, that should take care of itself in a day or three.
I am catching up on some of the PT exercises I didn't do while traveling because they require elastics, or the foam roller, or weights, but doing all of them tonight would be imprudent.
Seasons of Glass and Iron, by Amal El-Mohtar
17 March 2026 13:00Review copy provided by the publisher. Also the author is a friend.
This morning I wrote to another friend, "I've finished reading Amal's new collection, and now the only problem is how to write a review that's laudatory enough." "A good problem to have," my friend correctly noted.
Seriously, though. I've read most of these stories before, but when I came to each one, it was a matter of, "Oh, I loved this one!" rather than "Oh yeah, this one." There is a stylistic and thematic inclination to the stories that never rises to sameness. It's such a distillation of why I have been consistently happy to see these stories (and a few poems!) in the venues where they've appeared, for the years they've been appearing.
If you were hoping that this would be a source of new Amal stories, you'll have to keep waiting, this is the kind of collection that's a culmination of previous work rather than a revelation of new. But it's a beautiful slim volume, I'm thrilled to have it, I will press it upon my friends and relations, hurrah. Hurrah.
Who DO they think I am?
17 March 2026 19:33Am still being harried by spam from those dodgy-sounding conferences of very little relevance to my actual interests, happening in v attractive places:
International Conference on Time Series and Forecasting (ITISE 2026) (wot is this even), Gran Canaria (Spain).
6th Current Issues in Business and Economic Studies (CIBES) Conference at the University of Valencia.
13th International Congress of Gynaecology and Obstetrics (okay, is brushing somewhere in the region of Stuff I Have Worked On?) in Kyoto.
But really, YOY?
A new twist on this has appeared via my shiny new academic email address: really weird journals giving themselves out as academic that sound totally synthetic -
Journal of High Speed Networks (not as far as I can see associated with even one of the less esteemed academic journal publishers):
a forum in which researchers from academia and industry can address a wide range of topics related to high performance networking and communication and report findings on concepts; state of the art, emerging standards and technologies; implementations; running experiments; applications; and industrial case studies. Coverage can range from design to practical experiences with operational high performance/speed networks including communication network architectures; evolutionary networking protocols, services, and architectures; and network security.
Is this actually edited by a chatbot?
As, I suspect, is this one:
Invitation to Join Mesopotamian Journal of AI in Healthcare (MJAIH) Editorial Board. - there is in fact a website for the Mesopotamian Academic Press (I see they also publish Babylonian Journals of this and that.
Even without the complete mismatch to my actual realms of expertise here I am sceptical about this enterprise.
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17 March 2026 13:51My husband has just told me that his ex-wife is moving to another state far away and that he is going to take full custody of his son. This means the child I despise so much is now going to be living with me at my house full time, every single day, and there's nothing I can do about it. My husband refuses to let his son move away with his ex. How do I manage this?
– Fed Up
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19 March 2026 12:29Me: I take it you've never called ConEd on the phone in NYC? Because, whew, that'd disabuse you of this fiction pretty quick. Them and National Grid, wow. And I'm not even talking about their representatives, I'm talking about their recordings! Never heard such a thick NYC accent in my life, and I grew up here!
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18 March 2026 08:54Look upon my Works, ye Mighty, and Repair!"
Everything inside remains. Round the tools
Of that colossal Bench, all arranged
The shiny level and sander are neatly put away.
This is the best comment in that thread, nothing will top it.
"The best have strong convictions, while the worst / Are full of resignation and are sad.
[...]
And if a lion slouches toward Bethlehem, / That's 'cause it's native to the Levant."
Gosh, I wish.
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